net names: lilibat, victoria gwaed (it's a Welsh word look it up), lilitu, lilituaeternus, Aveenia, Antimony, Xeriya, other names that dare not be mentioned.

real name: Carmen Michelle Graham Christgau (Opera, Beatles, Cracker, WTF/ Graham is now a middle name, note the lack of hyphen. )

location: San Rafael just north of San Francisco, CA in exile from Nashville, TN

birthday: November 3, 1969

sign: Scorpio with Aries rising, Leo Moon

colours: black, red, purple, blue... basically anything rich and dark (jewel tones)

marital status: married

education: Over educated, thanks for asking. BA in Anthropology, some technical college. I read lot.

occupation: I am currently working as a production assistant for a game developer.

past jobs: Manager, music buyer, dancer, telemarketer, research assistant, Jr. network Admin, technical secretary, dishwasher, cook, waitress, costume mistress, dominatrix, bouncer, web designer, tech support.

hobbies: Gaming painting, music, gaming, reading, science (especially quantum physics, pharmacology, cosmology, technology),gaming, costuming, dance, did I mention gaming?

places I've been: Great Britain, France, Germany, Czech Republic, Hungary, Switzerland, Netherlands, Belgium (excuse me), Australia, Brazil, Guatemala, Tahiti. (I think that's it)

pets: Aveenia Inverse, a ginger girl kitty and her literal brother Arany Pok, also ginger.

children: none that I know of

favorite cuisine: Indian, Cajun, Eritrean, Mexican, basically anything spicy. I also like Japanese, English food, and German. Yes, I actually like English food, what of it?

time online: Since late 1995

religion: No thanks.

politics: Economically conservative socially liberal with libertarian leanings. Please note small 'l'.

best traits: Intelligent, creative, artistic, honest (sometimes too honest)

worst traits: Too blunt at times, procrastinator, I take on too much, get bored easily, moody, hold on to emotional things too long, really hard on myself.

music: Bauhaus, Kate Bush, Cassandra Complex, Chameleons, Cure, the Damned, Dead Can Dance, Delerium, Danny Elfman, Die Form, Einstuerzende Neubauten, Fad Gadget, Kurt Harland / Information Society, In the Nursery, Joy Division, Juno Reactor, Killing Joke, Leæther Strip, Legendary Pink Dots, Ministry, Mortiis, Nine Inch Nails, Gary Numan,Carl Orff, Pink Floyd, Project Pitchfork, Prokofiev, Pulnoc, Graeme Revell, Rosetta Stone, Siouxie & the Banshees, Sisters Of Mercy, Skinny Puppy, Swans, This Mortal Coil, Roger Waters, Will, Xymox,Yellow. I listen to alot of videogame soundtracks and tend to prefer instrumental music as I find the human voice can become tiresome.

games: §oul Reaver (well anything from the Legacy of Kain series), World of Warcraft, Everquest(retired), Legend of Zelda, Anarchy Online(retired), Phantasy Star Online (retired), Quake (I prefer single player FPS as I like exploring), Lunar, Grandia, Morrowind, Sims (I like building and decorating more than the actual gameplay),Neverwinter Nights , Eternal Darkness, Castlevania, Resident Evil, Devil May Cry... to name a few.

reading: Keith Baker, Dan Abnett, Tanith Lee, Tim Powers, Mick Farren, Neil Gaiman, Harlan Ellison. I generally like fantasy and fantasy oriented sci-fi, some horror.

movies: I like sci-fi, cheezy '80's post apocolypse/sci-fi, female chinese martial arts (Heroic Trio, Bride with White Hair), unusual horror (Company of Wolves, Near Dark), Marlene Deitrich, fantasy (Legend, LoTR). I also like a lot of anime (Slayers, Lain).

likes: rain, clouds, snow, fog, dreaming, night, the Ocean and the Desert at night, anime, honesty (even when it hurts), videogames, upgrading, smokers candles, corsets, people with some depth, good conversation, learning, thrift stores, finding new music, imported beer, London, winter, getting dressed up, leather, velvet, lace, curling up on the couch with my kitties, being naked (hush you), a good meal, strong women, spicy food, good wine.

dislikes: Thumpy bass music, hot weather, sun, earthquakes, wet socks, duplicitous people, lying, being late, getting up early, people pretending to be something they aren't, people getting credit for being something they aren't, abusers of animals and children, stupidity, intentional ignorance, political correctness, proselytizing, being powerless to change something that needs changing, people who think just watching Sailor Moon makes them an anime fan, people who think playing DDR and nothing else makes them a gamer, people who write in all caps or mixed case or say things like 'kewlies' and generally avoid using the English language and refuse to use any sort of nettiquitte.

things I have to live with: being 5'2", my dyslexia, ADHD, being 30 something, that I will never have a dancers body again, bad brain chemistry that causes depression from time to time.

biggest regret: That I didn't practice my musical instruments when I was younger more.